Everybody seems to hang out here and hope for the best. Lemme tell ya something...
Dload Mirc (Search Google)
Install
create a stupid username
use the first name as a handle
join "WhatNET"
then join "#3x"
after you will see on the left "xss1-3"
in that box type "!search (sitename)" - or a partial
enter.
One catch...these guys are assholes. Be careful. Read the rules and you'll get all you wanted. Don't nag. Don't ask.